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R.A.C.K. vs S.S.C.
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I am sure that most everyone reading this knows what
S.S.C. stands for......Safe, Sane and Consensual. Its
catchy, easy to remember and it has been a worthwhile
marketing slogan for the BDSM lifestyle no matter what
your level of involvement. Over time though it has
become less useful to the people actually engaging in
BDSM activities, but perhaps even more useful in making
us appear more "normal" to the outside world. What is
"normal" by the way?
Lets break down the acronyms and see which bests serves
the people who actually engage in BDSM activities, then
you decide which works best the for you.
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Safe: Free from harm. All necessary
precautions that can be taken for a particular activity
have been. Sounds good. Now define safe for yourself. So
far so good. Define safe for everyone else that engages
in BDSM. There in lies the catch with Safe, its
impossible to come up with an even close, satisfactory
universal definition that covers anyone other than you.
What one person considers safe another may think is not
only unsafe as it applies to them but damn close to
insane as well. Single tails, cuttings, needle play and
brandings are just a few of the activities that some of
us engage in, that many others find beyond their limits
and thus unsafe for themselves. Safe on the other hand,
is one of the reasons that SSC is such a wonderful
marketing tool for some of the best political activist
groups that we have, and thank goodness for them, such
as the NCSF (National Coalition of Sexual Freedom) who
is working very hard to get and keep the government out
of your bedroom. "Safe" is a comforting word to those
that they are working with to get laws changed and
passed.
Sane: This is another tough one to
define. Sane to most of us means that we have clear
mental facilities at the time that we are engaging in
any BDSM activity, that we are neither high, drunk or
unbalanced mentally in any way. Sounds good. Sane is
rarely applied to any activity, so like Safe; Sane is
left to the individual. What you consider to be a sane
activity I may think is completely crazy. Sane is
another comfort word that's wonderful in selling what it
is that we do. The media often portrays anyone into S&M
as being a deranged serial killer at worst and usually
criminal to some lesser degree at best, so its nice to
be able to convey the fact that the majority of the
people who engage in BDSM, including S&M, are level
headed sane people who just like to spice up their sex
lives with the additions of whips and chains.
Consensual: This is the one that we all
seem to agree on. If the person you are playing with has
not fully consented to whatever it is that is taking
place, its wrong, its assault and its abusive. Consent
in what we do is the very fine line that divides us from
criminals and abusers. Informed consent that is given
while NOT under duress can be applied to those that
engage in BDSM play and able to be understood by those
that do not. It seems to be the most honest of the three
of SSC. |
Ok, lets examine R.A.C.K. which has not been around all
that long and is widely unknown by those who engage in
BDSM activities. Risk Aware Censual Kink.
Risk: What are some of the things that
can go wrong, even with the best of planning and at the
hands of the most experienced player. Risk does not
imply Safe; it implies that there can be dangers that
have to be weighed before engaging in any activity. Risk
would be a much harder sell than Safe to the vanilla
world. It somewhat implies that what we do is in fact
dangerous. Isn't most if not all of what we do dangerous
to some degree? I think so.
Aware: Now that you know what the risks
are for a given BDSM play activity do you accept those
risks and are you aware of what the possibilities are if
something should go wrong and they should befall you?
Acceptance means that yes, you are aware of the risk
involved and that you knowingly and willingly accept
those risks. There is no debate about whether or not
it’s Sane. Aware means that you, after weighing the
risks to the enjoyment and benefit of the activity, to
YOU that it is sane and that you can make an informed
decision. It re-enforces the fact that what we do is in
fact up to the individuals participating. It’s honest.
Consensual: Same as above. The two (or
more) people involved in any BDSM play activity are
informed consenting ADULTS and that consent has not been
obtained under duress (with a gun to someone's head for
example).
Kink: This implies that what we do is
somewhat outside the mainstream. Kink is an umbrella
term and one that is good, in that it covers everyone.
What I consider to be kinky you might consider to be
boring and mundane, but it covers us both. There are
some kinks that do squick me, namely sex in the dark in
the missionary position. That's kinky as hell to me, but
those that enjoy their sex that way very well may
consider the fact that my slave and I enjoy things such
as spanking, paddling, single tails, caning, electrical
play (and not vibrators), enema's, straps, knife play
etc etc to be kinky, but we are both covered.
So which one is more suited to what it is that we do,
SSC or RACK? I personally think that RACK is a lot more
honest and a lot less ambiguous than SSC for the purpose
in educating the people who actually engage in BDSM play
activities. I think that RACK makes you much more aware
of what needs to be covered before engaging in ANY
activity with anyone. I also think that we as a
community still have a great need for SSC, the theory
behind it was very noble when it came about in the mid
1980's and that theory is still noble today. We as a
community need something that is short and catchy and
portrays us in a good light. A popular beer commercial
advertises its product as "great taste, less filling"
and for the people it’s trying to reach is a great
slogan. It does not advertise with "drink 6 of these in
15 minutes, get behind the wheel of a car and you may
kill yourself or someone else". That's the reality of it
though isn't it? Beyond just selling ourselves in a
positive fashion to the rest of the world, I think we
also owe it ourselves AND the rest of the world to
educate one another and ourselves in the best most
honest fashion that we can. As far as I am concerned,
SSC makes the sale possible and nice, RACK is the
warranty that keeps it from ever being portrayed as
lemon. Think about it.
Justin Medlin
Now that I have your attention feel free to
email me. I may
or may not respond to the emails, but I promise to read
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Copyright Justin Medlin © July 2001
Reproduced by permission for SC-L.O.C.K.
All rights reserved, do not reproduce in whole or in
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